So much irony in life

I went mad today and confronted my boss badly for an hour. No one feels it's a wise choice but I just feel that I need to do the right thing and voice out how I felt.

Sometimes you just feel that you put so much efforts on something and all in a sudden, the whole project was being ruined by the others and at the same time the credit was being taken by the others. I just felt I could fight for what things should be. I know it is stupid but I have no option as I was just guided by my upright personality. I just need to fight for justice and faireness.

Ironically, things happened again tonight at class. A group member was so upset and angry to the negative comment that she stood up and walked away from the classroom as a protest. Other group members were so upset and angry at what the unfair setting of the judging panels and the evaluation system were. They decided to confront with the professor and the panel speaker.

What can I say? I tried to stay calm and be with my group members but I had anticipated the outcome for long. I felt bad and upset that the incidence would spoil my grade but I felt sorry for my gruop member. But I just wanted to put a full stop there and focus on my exam.

Now, I typed up a note, sent to my angry group mate and wanted to share with her that her day might just be as bad as mine or might not be as much worse as mine.

Anyway, I might have to move on and think about what can keep me happy 'coz I don't feel happy at work anymore.

While my objective in life is to stay happy, maybe I should do something. Now.... back to my study and forget about the bad days. There are more to come.

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